"I'm not trying to be his daughter," even if she has no intention of backing out of his life again. Tris very deliberately refrains from mentioning that she thinks Odd is more of a danger there than she is. But Cold clearly cares about him, so Mick had better stay out of things where Odd is concerned.

"Neither of my parents deserved me. My foster family does." Tris cares a lot about Rosethorn, for very obvious reasons.